Hello and a warm welcome, I’m Charlotte Deverell, an experienced registered Relational Integrative Counsellor & Psychotherapist. In addition I’m also a training Clinical Sexologist (Sex Therapist) & Relationship (Couples) Therapist.
You find yourself here because you’re feeling disconnected from yourself & those around you. You’re seeking someone to confide in and support you through what you can no longer carry & navigate on your own.
You are in the right place.
You no longer have to remain on the outside, looking in at the life you wish you were living & the person you wish you could be or once were. I have worked with hundreds of individuals & helped them out of surviving & into living with purpose, from feeling out of control to back in the drivers seat.
I specialise in working with relationships & the experiences that have shaped us.
Much of my work involves making sense of the past to help you become unstuck in the present & provide you with control over your future. As a multi-disciplined therapist, I combine theories, research, tools & techniques & tailor them to what works best for you. While the main focus is talk based, I also integrate emotion regulation tools & practical exercises into my work with you so that you are resourced as much as possible. Our therapeutic relationship is important. You can learn more about me as a practitioner & human here:
Concerns I work with:
1:1 Relational Therapy
Anxiety/Stress
Childhood Trauma
Low Self-Esteem
Sexual Trauma & Abuse
Guilt, Shame & Loss
Narcissistic Abuse
Complex Relationships
Loss of Identity
Anxious & Avoidant Attachment
Difficulties in Dating
Psychosexual Therapy
Low-Desire; Mismatched Desire & Unsatisfying Sex
Unable to Orgasm or Climax
Fertility & Menopause
Pelvic Pain, Vaginal Pain & Penetration Problems (vaginismus, vulvodynia, anodyspareunia)
Erectile Dysfunction, Delayed & Premature Ejaculation
Sexuality & Gender Identity
Kink, BDSM & Fetish
Problematic/Distressing Porn Use & Other Compulsive Sexual Behaviours
Relationship Therapy
Couples Therapy
Marriage Counselling
Communication & Conflict Issues
Betrayal, Infidelity & Affairs
Relationship Breakdown
Mismatched Desire
Changes in relationship structures (consensual non-monogamy or polyamory)
You may want to explore concerns across different areas of therapy. As a relational therapist every aspect of your life & identity is important & interconnected, so we will make space for that.
It takes courage to be here, I see you. I help individuals & couples who:
Are seeking secure & healthy relationships, but find themselves repeating old patterns, having the same argument & encountering the same issues in different relationships & dating.
Are finding it difficult to trust, to feel safe, to feel seen or heard & are wanting it to be different.
Have experienced struggles or trauma in the past or present which are keeping them from moving forwards.
Feel overwhelmed & disconnected from their bodies, their needs & are no longer sure of who they are or what they need.
Are experiencing difficulties with sexual function, painful sex, erection issues, low-desire, little pleasure & lack of intimacy.
Have experienced relationship ruptures, such as betrayal and are afraid of losing their relationship.
I will work collaboratively with you to tailor our work to your needs and provide a joyful, inclusive, queer & LGBTQ+ safe space where every part of you & your relationship is welcome.
Services & Fees
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Individual Therapy (Relational & Psychosexual)
Individual Sessions are 50 minutes in length. Sessions are typically weekly at the same time & day. The fee for 1:1 sessions is £80.
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Relationship Therapy (Couples)
Relationship & Couples Therapy Sessions are 50 minutes or 80 minutes in length. Sessions are typically weekly at the same time & day. The fee for a 50 minute session is £90 & 80 minute sessions are £135.
In your own time, in your own space, with online sessions
After running a successful practice in Cardiff City Centre, I have now expanded to reach beyond geographical limits so that you can work with me from all over the UK and Europe.
I work exclusively online via zoom. Join me from the comfort of your living room.
Geographical areas I frequently work with: Cardiff, Swansea, South Wales, Bristol, Surrey, London. However, I have clients all over the world.
Book a consultation or your first session by filling out the contact form. Please check your junk folder for my reply.
If you are unsure whether I am the right professional for you and would like to speak with me before booking a session, I offer a free 15 min consultation to answer any questions you may have and to understand if we may be a good fit to work together.
I am currently accepting new clients.
My office hours are Monday - Thursday between 10am - 8pm (inclusive of bank holidays in exception of Christmas & New Year).