Hello and a warm welcome, I’m Charlotte Deverell, an experienced registered Relational Integrative Counsellor & Psychotherapist. In addition I’m also a training Clinical Sexologist (Sex Therapist) & Relationship (Couples) Therapist.
You find yourself here because you’re feeling disconnected from yourself & those around you. You’re seeking someone to confide in and support you through what you can no longer carry on your own. You’re feeling unsatisfied, stuck and are fed up of the daily struggle & repeating cycle in life, love, relationships, sex & intimacy.
You want to find a way to move forwards & stop suffering. You no longer want to remain on the outside looking in at the life you wish you were living. You want to get into living.
Let me help you to untangle.
Concerns I can help you with:
1:1 Relational Therapy
Childhood Trauma
Low Self-Esteem
Sexual Trauma & Abuse
Guilt, Shame & Loss
Narcissistic Abuse
Complex Relationships
Loss of Identity
Anxious & Avoidant Attachment
Difficulties in Dating
Psychosexual Therapy
Low-Desire; Mismatched Desire & Unsatisfying Sex
Unable to Orgasm or Climax
Fertility & Menopause
Pelvic Pain, Vaginal Pain & Penetration Problems (vaginismus, vulvodynia, anodyspareunia)
Erectile Dysfunction, Delayed & Premature Ejaculation
Sexuality & Gender Identity
Kink, BDSM & Fetish
Problematic/Distressing Porn Use & Other Compulsive Sexual Behaviours
Relationship Therapy
Couples Therapy
Marriage Counselling
Communication & Conflict Issues
Betrayal, Infidelity & Affairs
Relationship Breakdown
Mismatched Desire
Changes in relationship structures (consensual non-monogamy or polyamory)
You may want to explore concerns across different areas of therapy. As a relational therapist every aspect of your life & identity is important & interconnected, so we will make space for that.
It takes courage to be here, I see you. I help individuals & couples who:
Are seeking secure & healthy relationships, but find themselves repeating old patterns, having the same argument & encountering the same issues in different relationships & dating.
Are finding it difficult to trust, to feel safe, to feel seen or heard & are wanting it to be different.
Have experienced struggles or trauma in the past or present which are keeping them from moving forwards.
Feeling overwhelmed & disconnected from their bodies, their needs & are no longer sure of who they are or what they need.
Are experiencing difficulties with sexual function, painful sex, erection issues, low-desire, little pleasure & lack of intimacy.
Have experienced relationship ruptures, such as betrayal and are afraid of losing their relationship.
I will work collaboratively with you to tailor our work to your needs and provide a joyful, inclusive, queer & LGBTQ+ safe space where every part of you & your relationship is welcome.
In your own time, in your own space, with online sessions
After running a successful practice in Cardiff City Centre, I have now expanded to reach beyond geographical limits so that you can work with me from all over the UK and Europe.
I work exclusively online via zoom. Join me from the comfort of your living room.
Geographical areas I frequently work with: Cardiff, Swansea, South Wales, Bristol, Surrey, London. However, I have clients all over the world.
Book a consultation or your first session by filling out the contact form. Please check your junk folder for my reply.
If you are unsure whether I am the right professional for you and would like to speak with me before booking a session, I offer a free 15 min consultation to answer any questions you may have and to understand if we may be a good fit to work together.
I am currently accepting new clients.
Waiting list open for Couples Therapy - with availability from September 2025.
My office hours are Monday - Thursday between 10am - 8pm (inclusive of bank holidays in exception of Christmas & New Year).